When you go on vacations, do you stay at a hotel or a motel?
What does the environment of a temporary space do for you? Is it comfortable? Does it feel like home? Does it give you the excitement of being on vacation?
Initially, when we had just moved from India, even the American motels felt nicer than some of the more expensive hotels that we had booked in India. We’ve revisited some of those places, though, and have been blown away with the changes throughout the years, especially on one of our visits to Jaipur.
Most motels offer no excitement—they are just places to spend the night. The colors are neutral and the rooms are plain. They’re great for saving money and crashing quickly, but would be a bit monotonous to spend a life in.
Unfortunately, a lot of homes have this same quality – there is no real character in the rooms that we spend so much time in. Your home shouldn’t feel like a temporary or unnecessary space.
It should express your personality and feel like your sanctuary. It should feel like a space that you feel energized and inspired in.
When we stay at a hotel or a casino, it’s a totally different experience.
As soon as we walk into the lobby, we want to be there.
The atmosphere holds a certain excitement that we look forward to. And then we step into that hotel room. The beds are made, there are extra pillows for relaxation and comfort, the walls feature art and pleasant lighting, and the bathroom usually has a nice rain shower to give us that luxury experience.
People spend thousands of dollars on vacations every year, including hotel costs. I also enjoy travelling—making memories with my family and bonding with them on vacation is always an incredible experience. And I have noticed I’m considerably less tensed than usual while on vacation. Our family goal for this year is to take a cruise, since we haven’t done that yet.
However, we have done one smart thing so far. We invested in our own home. Right now, we have a master bedroom suite that is better than most hotels we have stayed in and a spa-like bathroom where we enjoy our daily showers. Having these luxurious-seeming qualities in our home makes every day feel special. Its like we are always on that grand vacation.
Think about it: Instead of spending thousands on one vacation, you can invest that money into your home. This process not only gives you a long-term comfortable space with character and personality, but it can also bring a huge monetary benefit when you need to sell your home.
Now, that’s not to say you shouldn’t travel. Travel is an awesome experience and can even inspire some design plans for your home. However, if your travels make coming home seem disappointing, you may want to invest more into your own space.
Make your home just as thrilling and comforting as a trip to a luxury hotel. Spend extra on things that are important to you—maybe a spa bath or create that luxurious bedroom with the custom upholstered bed that you have been dreaming about—and they’ll be there for more than just a night or two.
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